Sunday, September 23, 2007

What I'm Reading

A meeting at Corvallis by Stirling, S. M.
The final piece in the trilogy starting with Dies the Fire. I like it and I'm surprised that I like it. Well, partly. I do love a good disaster. And if we suddenly lost all electricity or combustion possibilities other than what it takes to make a small fire wouldn't we all be in a good disaster? Dies the Fire explored that very well. It also brought up the problem of how one rebuilds a society once it has been rocked too far.

It is at that point I thought I'd have trouble with the series. I love the SCA. Adore those guys. If I had the time I'd probably hang out with them. And the superiority complex the SCA would get at a time like this would be disasterous. Fortunately, the superiority complex of a former SCA member is given to the bad guy. So I can live with that.

The persistance of Elvish and other fantasy elements is annoying but it's ok for this type of genre. What the heck, if we can use Navajo to confuse the Japanese during WWII, why not use Elvish if you have it? And the second novel Protector's War shows how well those mythical elements can be used to reinforce or even re-create a culture. And it does allow for suspension of belief when an unexpected group arrives from Tasmania via Great Britain...by ship...

The final piece, Meeting at Corvallis seems to explore not only what makes a culture but the positive and negative elements that must be present to allow the culture to survive. I haven't quite finished it yet and, while I know the ending will be heroic and hopeful for the future, I suspect there will be sacrifices I won't like.

Overall a fast-moving and enjoyable series.

What I'm Listening to
Full blast by Evanovich, Janet. What a hoot that woman is. Just the thing to keep a gal smiling while cursing her way through traffic.

Current Musical Motif
Dang it! I woke up early yesterday and couldn't go back to sleep. I was flipping around tv channels and came upon "Come On, Get Happy: The Partridge Family Story" (1999) (TV). I got sucked in. I couldn't stop it. It was a vortex of unimaginable power. And it leaves me wondering: Why is it we know more about what happened to Jeremy Gelbwaks, the one year wonder who couldn't play drums than we do about little Suzanne Crough who bravely and silently beat herself black and blue with that tamborine for all those years?

I feel some kind of MTV/VH1 Where are they now? thing coming on.

Friday, September 21, 2007

Addendum: Important things to remember about relationships and/or marriage

My gosh, this must be so engrained in my being that I can't believe I left it out.

Develop your own interests outside the relationship. That's right. You want things to share. Lots of things. And not just the kids. Activities, Deep Thoughts, stuff like that. And you also want a place where you are separate.

My Daddy always said "just because you're married don't mean you're joined at the hip." My father's study of automotive history was his time. My mothers trips with her sister and with her mother are her time. The time she spent doing crewel-work and crochet and knitting? Her time. The time Dad spent at his metal machining in the basement? His time.

You can be in the same house or room. You can go visiting. You can become engrossed in your stamp collection while your spouse is an avid bridge-player.

Balance. It's all about the balance. It's important. Marriage is a commitment including two Individuals. Rejoice in what you share and honor what makes each of you so very special.

Monday, September 03, 2007

When it's time to change the channel

If you're watching the film "Beckett" starring Richard Burton and Peter O'Toole. British accents, drama, funny hats and tights. When you find yourself wondering when the Pythonesque punchline is coming...it's time to change the channel.